Roots & Wings Mental Health Fitness for Families
Building Roots for Wings to Unfold
Category: emotional flexibility
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“Grief is one of the heart’s natural responses to loss. When we grieve, we allow ourselves to feel the truth of our pain, the measure of betrayal or tragedy in our life. By our willingness to mourn, we slowly acknowledge, integrate, and accept the truth of our losses. Sometimes the best way to let go…
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The idea that it is abnormal to have unwanted, inappropriate thoughts can harm people’s mental health.
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We cannot simultaneously set a boundary and take care of another person’s feelings. When we know what creates our negative feelings and responses, we can use boundaries to manage relationships and ask for our needs to be met. An internal boundary is like an invisible shield preventing us from compromising our emotional, physical and spiritual…
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Our nervous system is made to be a guide and is designed to be automatic in its perception of protecting our survival, real or imagined. Emotions are meant to be experienced to process experiences – good and bad. Stressors are meant to be relieved – not exacerbated. It is valuable to make a written plan…
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Trying to avoid certain thoughts and feelings can be exhausting and can leave us feeling inadequate and without confidence. However, there are ways to navigate these challenges and use our thoughts and emotions as fuel for our energy. Acknowledging Thoughts and Feelings: Our thoughts and emotions are designed to get our attention, and when we…
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What Are Safety Behaviours? Safety behaviours are the protective actions we take even when they are unnecessary. They are like protective sidekicks, always ready to shield us from discomfort, fear, or embarrassment – even when they’re disproportionate and not needed. What do I need to know? – Safety behaviours quietly and unconsciously reinforce anxiety. Examples…
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SIMPLY EXIST OR EXIST SIMPLY Lisa Colbert aka FLICKERSHINE I don’t care to conform to expectations Not even my own I don’t care to feel my emotions I just don’t want to be alone But who will accept me If I won’t accept myself How will I find me? When I am so lost Mixed…
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